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Well I Don't Feel Like...

When I was between 12 and 14 years I was taught a concept that I know to be true. I was taught that if you really, really loved someone, that you wanted to be with them so much that you would take a genuine interest in what they were interested in. A kind of molding to one another. I've written before about the money thing-his money, her money-but when you're married it really should be 'our' money (the two shall be one flesh). This is kind of the same theme or idea. Just a slight tangent. Of course with all relationships there are pros and cons as to how far you can take either of these ideas, but if both parties are more emotionally/mentally/socially balanced than not, you can create a forever relationship by abiding by these concepts. So he likes one style movie and you can't stand it. Employing the theory of molding my will and interests to yours, you would then attend the movie anyway and try to find something of value in it (closing eyes and ears to parts you ...